Top 10 signs of a DESPERATE MAN

In the dating world, a desperate man is one who is over-eager, anxious, presumptuous and willing to be with any woman to avoid being alone. Women can spot desperation in a man from miles away, and if you suffer from it, you’ll never stand a chance at getting any girl.

A man who is desperate may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship; however, due to having little experience in the romance and dating department, his behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.

Here are 10 warning signs that can help you determine if you fit under the portrait of a desperate man:

1. Dropping your standards
Desperate men are prepared to drop their dating standards to fill the huge emotional void in their life. Whether they want children or intimacy the desperate man will date who they have too to avoid being alone. They will be with any woman just for the sake of being attached while failing to realize that it’s better to be single and wait for the girl who is their type.

2. Constantly fishing for compliments
The desperate man has low self-esteem, a poor self-image and needs to constantly hear how great he is and be assured of things. It doesn’t take long for women to get tired of constantly stroking your ego.

3. Overly Calling/Emailing/Texting Her
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to overly call, email or send text messages early in a relationship, especially when she hasn’t returned any of your messages. The desperate man makes the fatal mistake of calling the woman he’s dating and asking “Did you just call me?” after receiving a call from an unrecognized number.

4. You’re always available
Always being available makes women think that you don’t have a life of your own and actually lessens your own attractiveness, making you far less desirable. Being a challenge to women makes you more desirable.

5. You move too fast in relationships
The desperate man will spend every single day with a new girl for weeks and never know basic information about her that normally should have been covered in the first few dates. Although finding love is based on each individual relationship and some people move quicker than others, the desperate man will move so quickly with things like intimacy and s*x that he will turn a woman off with his frantic desire for a relationship.

6. You’re constantly buying her gifts
A desperate man constantly showers a woman with gifts without realizing that eventually she will become less thrilled and even annoyed receiving them. Even though the thought is nice, after a while the concept will begin to lose its meaning and she is going to get tired of always getting something.

7. Not giving her enough time and space
Desperate men tend to be a bit on the invasive side when they always need to hang out at a woman’s home for hours on end, not respecting the fact that she has a life of her own life. Women don’t always want to hang out with you day in and day out and will quickly end relationships with guys not respecting their need for space.

8. You’re in constant agreement with everything she says
Desperate men just sit there and agree with everything a woman says, thinking that’s what she wants. In reality, women want someone who is going to stimulate their minds and are not turned on by men they can completely control has no backbone.

9. You make her the center of your life too fast
Desperate men tend to make the first woman that will go out with them the only person in their life and not take the time to continue dating and getting to know other women. Telling a woman “You’re the only woman in the world for me” before the three-week period will have her running for the hills.

10. Being overly nice all the time
If a guy is too nice, too accommodating and tries to be the most giving person to a woman, she will begin to think he’s being insincere and will lose romantic interest quickly. She’ll also think that he’s only trying to achieve one thing: to get into her pants.

-DAILY POST

PHOTOs: Hundreds strip off for NO PANTS DAY

Yesterday, subway riders around the world “debriefed” for the annual No Pants Subway Ride—a yearly prank where people ride the subway “pants-free” while keeping a straight face.

From Stockholm to Mexico City, hoards of commuters left their pride at the door & let their drawers do the walking.

In Mexico City, hundreds of people also took off all but their smalls to take part in the “No Pants Subway Ride” – just for laughs – around the world.

Young and old, men, women and children got in on the 12th annual round of the prank held once a year in 50 cities, the well-ventilated movement said on its website.

It was the third time people in Mexico City lost their trousers and skirts to partake in the underground underwear fun.

5 reasons why you may be SINGLE

There is a huge difference between the guys who get girls on a consistent basis and the one’s who just can’t seem to get attention from the opposite s*x no matter how hard they try. If your love life is on the skids, it’s safe to assume that you are probably guilty of one of these 5 blunders. 

1. You’re too needy

If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to be overly needy, i.e., excessively calling, emailing or sending text messages early in a relationship, always being available and doing everything she wants. Furthermore, women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement. 

2. You don’t know how to build attraction

Many men fail in this area because they don’t know how to talk to women in a way that makes them more interested as time goes on. You need to learn the trigger points in women, i.e., how they think, react, and speak. You also have to know how to project your best qualities and use these to build attraction. 

3. You’re looking in the wrong places

Trying to meet women in bars and clubs is a waste of time! Many women do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men who approach them in these settings. Some of the best places to meet single women are shopping centers, coffee shops, concerts and gyms. Women KNOW that guys who are in bars and clubs are looking for one-night stands, but they don’t expect to be hit on in the above scenarios (element of surprise). 

4. You don’t have confidence

Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A sexually confident man who is secure about his se*uality and is comfortable being who he is will always attract more women. 

5. You’re not persistent

Second to not even trying, giving up too early is the most common mistake guys make. You may need to get rejected a few dozen times before you come across a girl that likes you. Remember, meeting women is about numbers, so continue to go out and meet as many women as possible to improve your chances.

Another ‘WAIGANJO’ .……. Were GOR MAHIA duped?

Barely three days have passed since the arrival of the much publicized Gor Mahia’s Brazilian striker Giovanni Rodriguez, but football pundits have expressed their reservation over his quality.

During the club’s training yesterday at the Tok Konyamwanda (City Stadium) where he was officially unveiled. A section of Gor Mahia fans were unconvinced with his amateurish ball control techniques.

In fact some fans were calling him ‘Waiganjo’ in reference to the fake cop who infiltrated the Kenyan police and rose to the highest rank for five years without raising suspicion.

Head coach Zdravko Logarusic, while speaking to journalists at the City Stadium, said that he will have to prove his worth.

“Tomorrow (Tuesday 16, January) he will have to join the team in training and prove that he is the kind of player we are looking for, said Logarusic.

“He has to be as good as or better than the likes of Rama Salim, (Dan) Sserunkuma and (Paul) Kiongera for us to sign him, else we shall have him on the first plane back to Brazil.

Rodriguez started his career with Atlantic Sport Club, Rio White Sport Club and Rio Branco Sport Club football academies, before joining Giovani second division leagues for White River Sport, Union Marechal Hermes and Esporte Club Compo Grande.

W all know the fans’ expectations especially being Brazilian but we hope he will talk on the pitch during his first training today at the same venue.

Kikuyu elders ban sex on election eve

KIKUYU Council of Elders has urged members of the community to avoid sex on the eve of the March 4 general election.

The elders said all members should abstain from sex and alcohol at least 12 hours before the elections.
The chairman of the elder’s vetting committee Muiruri Njuguna said the move will ensure victory as voters will be sober.
“Traditionally, sex and alcohol were avoided when people were optimistic of victory especially on the eve of war or other big events like general election.
I want the community to avoid sex and alcohol since many may fail to vote,” he said.
The elders were speaking at Narumoru town last weekend after crowning the Kieni parliamentary aspirant James Mathenge also known as Kanini Kega as a Kikuyu elder.
The elders, who were led by national chairman Wachira Kiago, blessed Mathenge for the MP’s seat, saying he is a leader of integrity.
Mathenge was on a three-day campaign drive to woo voters ahead of TNA nominations.
Earlier, rowdy youth disrupted Mathenge rally after he made a stop-over at Ichuga trading centre.
Mathenge condemned the incident and urged Kieni residents not to elect violent leaders
-THE STAR

REVEALED!! Artists on UHURU KENYATTA’s PAYROLL

  The campaign period is finally here and politicians are ready to splash millions of shillings and bankroll entertainers all in the name of attracting potential votes.

Jubilee coalition and CORD which are currently the most popular have been spending a lot on entertainers though Jubilee seems to be bankrolling most stars in the country.

Today we reveal the names artists who have endorsed Uhuru Kenyatta and are earning millions of shillings for their involvement in the coalition.

Apparently the artists are also planning a tour across the country to campaign for Uhuru Kenyatta.

Among them are Ringtone who publicly declared that his ‘boss’ as he addresses Uhuru has promised him a top job once he takes office, others include Abbas Kubaff, Chiwawa, Bamboo, Rabbit, G-Kon, Ali B and Madtraxx.

The artists have all been busy in the studio coining some of their best tracks to make an anthem for the coalition. Prolific MC and producer Big Ted is also actively involved with the coalition.

Surprisingly no female artists are in the politicians’ payroll.

Most female artists are however actively involved in preaching peace across the country through their music.

-DAILY POST

EXPOSED!! Easy fm’s SHEILLA MWANYIGHA ….How OLD is this WOMAN

  A woman’s age is one of the most guarded secrets as a man’s salary. Easy fm’s Sheilla Mwanyigha has however been in her twenties for the past decade and more.

Below is an expose courtesy of Nairobi Exposed:

Hey admin me i want to strip sheila,the easy fm radio prresenter.how realy old is she, forever she is lying about her age,i know us ladies we do lie bout it lakini yeye amezidi when i was in highschool she was 26,nikamaliza shule kama ako 26*accordin to magazine interviews* i went to campo she was 27 sasa nikamaliza campo and ati she is 28? Which time clock is she on?

Sheila my dear you need to wake up and come to the reality that you are old and accept it, we havent forgotten you used to screw a young prezzo by then ati ukamwita boyfriend? B*tch pliz you were a cougar to prezzo, fortunately you realised it and left the kid. Ive heard rumourz, apparently me and you live in the same neighbourhood,i hear that you bring young boys to your home to do God knows what,you feel young huh? 

Why dont you just get a mature man and settle down,leave the boys for the gals. You try so much to look young,the other day pics of you with horribly done make up have been doing rounds ön the net,omg!did you see how horrific you looked? Thats what happens when you dont come to the reality that you old. Oh btw thanks for that pic,everytime my daughter hataki kula i show her the pic akikataa kulaa ntakuitia huyu,and anakula haraka.

Look dear, you can brand me however you wish but my point is,wake up to the reality, you are no longer a gal you are a woman. some of your agemates wana grandchildren ok thats exaggerated. Im now happy ive got it off my chest.admin you can just post,let me know when you post. Make sure she reads this.ahsante

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