LADIES Before you go spreading your legs for a married man you should know:

LADIES Before you go spreading your legs for a married man you should know:

i) The only thing he wants from you is P***Y. He cums, he is gone.

ii) At the end of the day, he will go home to his wife

iii) He is never going to leave his wife for you

iv) You are most likely not his only play chic

v) He really loves his wife that’s why he married/is still with her

vi) After using you he will dump you for someone else, someone 'fresher'

vii) He doesn't owe you anything before God and even the law.

viii) Getting pregnant on purpose won’t trap him, his real kids are at home with his wife.

ix) His money and properties are his and his wife's. You only get the loose change

x) You will never be a part of his future

So stop wasting your time and energy...and that p***y too...get your sh*t together, make your own money wait for your own man... just get a life!!!!
A real lady walks hard and gets her own money, a man with money is a bonus

#DonLucky#

The Naked Truth About Kenyan Politicians,The Truth Nothing But The Truth

The Naked Truth About Kenyan Politicians,The Truth Nothing But The Truth

KENYANS THE EDUCATED FOOLS
The simple mathematics that was taught to me by Mr. Gicheru has it that 8-4-4=0.This is where the rain started to beat us. In a country where 80% of the population has basic literacy and numeracy skills, you would expect independent minds and above average civilization. In the Universities and institutions of higher learning you would expect political sanctity in student elections not tribal warfare. You would expect that Gor mahia funs behave with sobriety we experience in old Trafford. You would expect a person who is implicated in war crimes to be home sorting out his problems with his lawyers not irritating us in the political arena. You would expect soccer to meet south African standards at least because our population is better informed .You would expect film industry bigger than Nollywood because our education system is superior. You would expect a minister who throws stones at police like Waititu be behind bars for integrity mutilation. You would expect issue based politics and not fanatics
Well we are not Just about to see any of these. When a child starts nursery school he/she has 8GB of wisdom and independence. The first statement my teacher told me is that am learning in order to get a job not a living. I was told to study hard to pass my exams not to acquire knowledge. I was told that to be smart I must remember everything I was taught and reproduce it in exam papers. I used to be given a packet of milk every day, I was told that maziwa ya nyayo was sweeter than ya Ngombe and the power of conviction made it taste sweeter. I was told Moi was my bigger father and that everything he said was correct. I was told he cares about children and that’s why he gives us milk. We used to pledge our Loyalty to him every morning before milk is distributed. Thats being smart by Kenyan standards. The more you regurgitate the smarter you are. When I got into the Job market, I realized I have to depend on someone to bear an idea but once the idea is given to me I execute it with excellent meticulous .So I don’t create jobs I get employed. That is what was planted into every Kenyan student. When I started i had 8GB independence because I could create my own toys and invent entertaining games.4Gb was subtracted in primary school and by the time I finished STD 8 I couldn’t formulate my own entertainment. I had been taught that the bold and the beautiful was the stuff for the civilized, But at least I played soccer at the local club and really loved it. In Higher learning, even the soccer game that I used to enjoy was taken away from me. I used to run away from classes to attend Man U matches in local Pubs, shouting my voice hoarse at images of men making a living half the globe away. The other 4 was taken away so I have 0GB Independence. Am very learned but not educated
8-4-4=0 that’s where we are. This is what is aching our politics today.The maziwa ya nyayo generation has become of age now. We are the youths who are supposed to take over the nation, but we have 0GB independence. The FUATA NYAYO MBWA mentality is our DNA.Anything made of Moi is sacred to us and is to be guarded with the jealousy that the dog guards its master with. Well Uhuru,Ruto and Kosgei,Mudavadi.are mois creation.They are Graduates of Moi school of politics and economics.The fuata nyayo philosophy is a major in the school along with corruption and impunity.These are the Mois of Today.The Maziwa ya Nyayo generation then is ready to do anything to pledge their loyalty to them.Raila has a bigger army of Moi men around him he has perfected the fuata nyayo brainwash. Am not surprised even with crime against humanity cases hanging over their heads the youths are fighting singing and glorifying them to power.Its maziwa ya nyayo poison in action.Fuata Nyayo slavery in action.The Question is who will liberate us youths from the mental and economic slavery.
 By Ndegwa Daniel Kariuki

Why does India treat its women so badly?

People have called her Braveheart, Fearless and India's Daughter, among other things, and sent up a billion prayers for a speedy recovery.
When the unidentified woman died in a Singapore hospital early on Saturday, the victim of a savage rape on a moving bus in the capital, Delhi, it was time again, many said, to ask: why does India treat its women so badly?
Female foetuses are aborted and baby girls killed after birth, leading to an an appallingly skewed sex ratio. Many of those who survive face discrimination, prejudice, violence and neglect all their lives, as single or married women.
TrustLaw, a news service run by Thomson Reuters, has ranked India as the worst country in which to be a woman.
This in the country where the leader of the ruling party, the speaker of the lower house of parliament, at least three chief ministers, and a number of sports and business icons are women.
It is also a country where a generation of newly empowered young women are going out to work in larger numbers than ever before.
But crimes against women are rising too.
With more than 24,000 reported cases in 2011, rape registered a 9.2% rise over the previous year. More than half (54.7%) of the victims were aged between 18 and 30.
Most disturbingly, according to police records, the offenders were known to their victims in more than 94% of the cases. Neighbours accounted for a third of the offenders, while parents and other relatives were also involved. Delhi accounted for over 17% of the total number of rape cases in the country.
And it is not rape alone. Police records from 2011 show kidnappings and abductions of women were up 19.4%, women being killed in disputes over dowry payments by 2.7%, torture by 5.4%, molestation by 5.8% and trafficking by an alarming 122% over the previous year.
The Nobel Prize-winning economist Amartya Sen has estimated that more than 100m women are "missing" worldwide - women who would have been around had they received similar healthcare, medicine and nutrition as men.
New research by economists Siwan Anderson and Debraj Ray estimates that in India, more than 2m women are missing in a given year.
The economists found that roughly 12% of the missing women disappear at birth, 25% die in childhood, 18% at the reproductive ages, and 45% at older ages.
They found that women died more from "injuries" in a given year than while giving birth - injuries, they say, "appear to be indicator of violence against women".
Deaths from fire-related incidents, they say, is a major cause - each year more than 100,000 women are killed by fires in India. The researchers say many cases could be linked to demands over a dowry leading to women being set on fire. Research also found a large number of women died of heart diseases.
These findings point to life-long neglect of women in India. It also proves that a strong preference for sons over daughters - leading to sex selective abortions - is just part of the story.
Clearly, many Indian women face threats to life at every stage - violence, inadequate healthcare, inequality, neglect, bad diet, lack of attention to personal health and well-being.
Analysts say deep-rooted changes in social attitudes are needed to make India's women more accepted and secure. There is deeply entrenched patriarchy and widespread misogyny in vast swathes of the country, especially in the north. And the state has been found wanting in its protection of women.
Angry citizens believe that politicians, including Prime Minister Manmohan Singh, are being disingenuous when they promise to toughen laws and speed up the prosecution of rapists and perpetrators of crime against women.
How else, they ask, can political parties in the last five years have fielded candidates for state elections that included 27 candidates who declared they had been charged with rape?
How, they say, can politicians be believed when there are six elected state legislators who have charges of rape against them?
But the renewed protests in Delhi after the woman's death hold out some hope. Has her death come as an inflexion point in India's history, which will force the government to enact tougher laws and people to begin seriously thinking about the neglect of women?
It's early days yet, but one hopes these are the first stirrings of change.
-BBC

Bizarre items found at aspirant’s gate

Residents of Isinya were in shock when they stumbled upon items suspected to be used for witchcraft at a Kajiado East parliamentary aspirant’s gate.
The materials included a cat placed in a pot and covered with a piece of cloth, a coffin bearing the aspirant’s name, and a piece of paper on which death threats were written.
The threatening message was written in the local dialect and directed at Mr Joshua Oluwasa, an ODM aspirant in the region, warning him to quit politics or be ready to face dire consequences.
“We are giving you the last warning and if you defy our orders you risk being wiped out of politics,” read a part of the note.
The aspirant, who had left his home for Nairobi, was informed of the incident by his sister, who spotted them at the gate and raised alarm attracting a crowd.
Rev Moses Gitonga of Full Gospel Church led a group of members of the clergy in prayers over the issue.
Stern warning
Frightened residents ran for dear life  at one point during the prayer session when a kitten raised its head from the pot and made noises.
After the prayer session, the cleric led the crowd in burning the materials, and the kitten was removed from  the pot when some residents broke the pot after stoning it.
When contacted for comment, the aspirant who is also a sitting councillor, said he suspects his rivals were responsible because of his growing popularity.
Area Police boss Simon Kiragu confirmed the incident and sent a stern warning to politicians who use death threats against their opponents.
Barely three weeks ago, suspected gangsters attacked the aspirant at his Isinya home.
 By Brigid Chemweno

ERIC OMONDI goes into POLITICS …… Skinny People United Party (Ah ah)

ERIC OMONDI goes into POLITICS …… Skinny People United Party (Ah ah)

 

 Comedian Eric Omondi is scaling to higher heights with his Signature club in Nairobi. Last weekend Omondi officially launched his political party at the club dubbed Skinny People United Party of Kenya.

The political party is registered by the Registrar of Parties and although it may not have any of its members in the ballot box come next year’s General elections plans are underway to field them in future.

Apparently the party targets skinny celebs and members of the society with the likes of Ghetto Radio’s Mbusii and award winning gospel artist Juliani.

The minimum weight for members is 34kgs with a maximum weight a little over 60kgs.

The party goes with the slogan anakonda meaning “he is thin” and has its manifesto.

More on the political party, its members and initiatives to follow as it unfolds…..

TRUE ....VERY SAD STORY........ MUST READ AND SHARE. LETS SAVE OUR TEENAGERS

TRUE ....VERY SAD STORY........ MUST READ AND SHARE. LETS SAVE OUR TEENAGERS

Written by a COLLEGE GIRL before she DIED.....

 I Took Off My UNDERWEAR..
 I used to be that innocent girl who had the world at her feet. I was beautiful and I had eyes and HIPS that could make men sway, and to top it all up, I was a Christian, a very good Christian with a heart burning for God. When I entered the university, I met a guy, his name was DERRICK. I couldn’t believe my luck the first time I bumped into him on my way to class, he had such a kind smile and a tender look that weakened my knees when he spoke. Because I was late for class we couldn’t talk much but barely three weeks later, I met him at the fresher’s night party and I was overwhelmed. We got talking and I found out that he was in his second year and from that night, we became an inseparable pair. At first, we were friends and as months passed by, we got closer and closer and the chemistry between us was undeniable.

 About a year after I entered the university, Derrick and I started dating. He was everything a girl could ever want and desire save the fact that he wasn’t so much of a Christian. Derrick had magical hands that made him hard to resist and most times I fell for it. At first, I felt bad but when I couldn’t help falling into the same pit I killed the guilt on my inside. And then one day, one of my friends said I was getting fatter and that got me thinking and in the process I began to link the dots…first I had a vomiting spree every morning which I thought was due to a flu and then I had this morning sickness which I felt was due to stress and then my missing period…oh no it can’t be possible I said to myself, I couldn’t be pregnant!!!
 After a series of test outside school, I realized the deadliest truth, I was indeed pregnant. I was only nineteen, I still had a whole life ahead of me, what was I going to do. I couldn’t tell my parents, they wouldn’t hear of it. I had to go to Derrick to tell him what I had found out.

 On telling him, I saw him fly into a temper I had never seen in my life. He was so hysterical, calling me all sorts of names and I didn’t even know when I started crying heart drenching tears of hurt and betrayal. When he looked into my eyes he must have realized how scared and hurt I was and so he pulled me close and ran his hands through my hair until I had calmed down and then he said tome in the most subtle voice ever ”why don’t you have an abortion”. I pulled back instantly, I couldn't have an abortion! But when he talked about my parents and the sanctioning of the school and the fellowship which I belonged to, I knew I had no other choice.

 Derrick had made all the arrangements and so on the supposed day we went to the room- like clinic. I shivered all through my way there but Derrick kept telling me that it would be okay and that he was proud that I made such a brave decision. When I entered into the room where the abortion was supposed to take place I laid down on the table trying to dissociate my mind from what I was about to do and then a young man told me sternly, ”you know I can’t perform this procedure with your underwear on” and then I began to pull it off. As I did this a sense of guilt overwhelmed me, first I had pulled off my UNDERWEAR of pleasure and now I was pulling it off to get rid of the stigma the pleasure had brought…what a shame, I felt so exposed.

 All through the times that I felt instruments coming in and out of me, I kept thinking of the lady I had become and the hypocrite I had transformed into. I let out a sigh, only if I can get through this I muttered… only if…and then I felt a sharp pain pierce through the whole of my body, I screamed but then the doctor told me to be quiet. I felt another pain but this time I bit my lip and then the pain began to come in successions. I instinctively knew that something was wrong but I was too weak to talk or to move and then I heard the voices of Derrick and the doctor talking about the fact that I was bleeding excessively. The pain was so unbearable and I could feel myself getting weaker and weaker. With the last strength in me, I pleaded with God ”Oh Lord I’m so sorry for taking my under wears off, please forgive me.” and I drifted into a world where the pain seemed less hurtful and the voices seemed more distant.

 Friends, our bodies are the temple of the Lord… Do not take off your UNDERWEAR when the time is not right. Lots of girls who gained admission into the university as virgins eventually lost it so cheaply to guys who have nothing to do with their destinies. In a bid to get a certificate, they sold out a destiny that certificate cannot guarantee....she died long time ago..

 If U HAVE A HEART and her story and death touched YOU....write R.I.P.....if YOU didn't feel anything ignore........R.I.P

MY PERSONAL ADVICE TO FACEBOOK LADIES, ESPECIALLY THOSE IN THEIR TWENTIES...

MY PERSONAL ADVICE TO FACEBOOK
LADIES,
ESPECIALLY THOSE IN THEIR
TWENTIES...

* Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady... So instead of sitting there and waiting to be
bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house
wife category...

* Never let the sweet talks of guys deceive you, most times they just want to
go between your legs and run off thereafter. *Remove the mentality from your
mind that guys will keep springing up to approach you.The older you get
by the day, the less toasters you will have.
 

*Playing 'too' hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember,
Nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured
single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE.
 

*Never extort things from a guy you don't love, guys always have ways of
paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total 'PAID' STRANGERS....BE
CAREFUL.
*Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex. A man will also return to his wife who sex starve
him for years once he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body.
*If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him,
don't complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else
to offer...
* Don't be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they
will say that same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate
with.
*A guy always taking you to the SILVER BED, FAST FOOD (pizza in or galitos),
MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTRE / NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that
he loves you, if he doesn't care to ask and PLAN  YOUR FUTURE
TOGETHER then you are just his 'SOCIAL MATE' and nothing else....
*If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house
and do his laundry, then just know you are his "executive house help".
*If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign
he is just playing games with you. 

 *Don't always change the tv station from NTV to CHANNEL O , MTV and Fashion
TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out.
*If the only places he doesn't frown when you enter are his bedroom and
kitchen then know you aren't welcome (only being used).

Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up being emotionally abused
are the ones at the receiving end... Always with open arms, requesting for something
and ready to receive...

The more you widen your arms, the more he widens your legs...

A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being
wild when he brings female visitors to the house is a sign that
HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS
ALREADY... ADVISE YOURSELF...
FINALLY, I ALWAYS SAY THIS AND WILL REPEAT IT AGAIN... It's better to be sitting
in a taxi  smiling happily than to be in your
husbands fresh air conditioned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a fresh Gucci shades
alongside a Burberry scarf....

JUST REMEMBER, THAT
DATING A RICH MAN DOESN'T
GUARANTEE
HAPINESS IN MARRIAGE... MONEY IS
NOT EVERYTHING.....
MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS
WHAT MATTERS MOST...

LADIES: Why MEN run away from FATHERHOOD

Everyone has a friend or knows a woman who is raising children on their own, there is no doubt single motherhood has become a norm in today’s world.  There are various circumstances that lead to this but let’s focus on cases where the dad split the day he got wind of the pregnancy.

You know how it goes, the chic calls or texts with the dreaded “we need to talk” the guy says “it’s not mine” before the poor girl even says am pregnant. Either way, it’s the lady who ends up with the responsibility man or no man. The big question here is why do men do this; he has a good job, even cruises around town in a sleek car so it’s not always monetary. Here are five of the main reasons according to Eric Payne.

1. Caught Up in the “Self”
At every point in men world he is often engrossed in one thing or another. For some it’s their job, you know the type that would be glued to their laptops all night and all day, techies especially. There are others that are not so passionate about their jobs but that daily bar chat with the boys during weekdays and out of town weekend plots keeps them busy. Men get scared of losing their “lives” hence they will postpone anything that interrupts that schedule or routine and if it comes by mistake they run. Anything other than what they have programmed is chaos in a man’s mind which is why you’ll hear “…but I’m working on this and that” or “Not now.”

2. Past Experiences

There are some men who have endured physically and emotionally abusive relationships as children and whether they received therapy for this or not, they don’t trust their ability to not do the same thing to a child of their own. Its common for men not to trust themselves with the tenderness of a child, that’s why some can’t hold a new born baby. In aggravated cases a man will also fear raising the child or having anything to do with it.

3. They were never “men” to begin with. 
A man is by no means some mythological archetype of human strength and perfection but rather someone who accepts accountability for their actions and owns up to them, no matter what. This isn’t the easiest thing to do considering accountability isn’t taught to a man in too many places. The only place a man can learn to be responsible and accountable is from his family or dad to be specific, which today’s family set up doesn’t provide much of. I mean, in some families the mother is the breadwinner, in others the dad provides but is never at home to discipline or talk to the kids or he is there but never gives a hoot. Simply put, boys can only learn to be men from other men and that is a rare species in the new world order.

4. A Father Yes, Husband NO
A man might be at a point in his life where he is ready to be a father but there’s a strong possibility he may not want the particular woman he’s impregnated to be the mother of his child or his wife. He might resent the idea of having wasted his “seed” on this particular woman and now being stuck with her. As a girl it’s up to you to know the difference between the two, he wants to be a father and he wants you as a wife. 

When a man is in his early thirties he gets this natural urge to procreate, to be a father, this however isn’t tied to being a husband. That explains why he gets you pregnant and splits, has no qualms with taking responsibility but wants nothing to do with you as a woman. In this case the man is running from you as opposed to the child. There is also a time when a man wants a family; he wants to come home to someone, that’s the perfect time to get paged if your plan is to get him on lock down. Get the timing right, know what he wants in his life and when.

5. Low Esteem
Esteem issues affect different things in human beings and they get into play as far as procreation is concerned. When a man is responsible for a child he naturally wants to be able to give that child his all, more so the things he wished for but didn’t have.

If a man is struggling to do right by himself it certainly causes him to doubt his prospective parenting skills. Fathers don’t have the luxury of bonding physiologically with a child in the womb they therefore don’t have the connection that moms do during pregnancy. The man might convince himself that he will bring his child more harm than good and decide his unborn little one is better off without him and cause him to run.

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