5 tips for TALKING to women and ATTRACT them like CRAZY
Many men
are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through
life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure
you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:
1. You
should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions,
or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While
talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to
dictate what you’ll be talking about.
3. Pay
attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If
you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or
making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay
attention to them.
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to
have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing
them the most excitement and enjoyment.
5. Tease
women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and
flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the
playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective
all over again.
6. Get
intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not
afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
7. Use
things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women
love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.
8. Avoid
complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who
come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will
think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t
bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead
state your opinion about things.
10. Remember: Statements over
questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look
like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her
and express your personality.
11. Don’t
hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever
you’re passionate about.
12. Never
compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.
13. Say something that lets her know
that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk
of winding up in the “friend zone”.
14. Use
conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games
can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5
questions game”.
15. Don’t
give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a
challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is
slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about
what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy.
Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of
what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and
you’ll do just fine.
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